Now those are the kinds of members that I have a serious issue with. If you have the right mindset, and you have the right strategy, free sex sites can be a win-win situation. In fact, it’s a double win. First, the website operator wins because you engage in behavior that end up putting dollars in their pockets, good for them. You win because you help establish a vibrant online adult dating community which can eventually, somehow, some way, end up with you getting your dick sucked, and you fucking a hot chick in your local area. In other words, everybody got what they came for, just look at this.

However, for this to work, everybody has to do their fair share. This is where things get a little bit nasty. Unfortunately, a lot of the free sex sites out there are flimsy creations at best. What do I mean by flimsy? We’re talking about just one page replicated many times over.

If that isn’t bad enough, a lot of these pages are populated by so called members that are not real. These members are simply automated data "puppets" brought to life by sophisticated software. Make no mistake about it, a lot of these chat software are so sophisticated that sometimes it feels like you’re talking to a real person. It turns out that these pieces of software exist only for one reason and one reason alone: to make you stay at the website for as long as possible. That’s one complication.

The other complication is that a lot of other people that hang out on these websites expect bullshit and they are eager to heap their own bullshit. What I mean by this is that these people are in on the act. They want to basically exploit genuine members like you so you can click on links to go to online strip shows, porn sites, and other dating sites.

Think of it this way, there’s a reason why you joined free sex sites. You don’t want to pay for the expense. Now, how insulting is it when you click on the profile of who you thought was a hot chick only to end up on another dating site that actually asks for actual dollars to join? You see how ridiculous that situation is? Unfortunately, that’s the kind of spot too many guys find themselves in because they are not very discriminating as far as the free sex sites that they decide to join in.

If you don’t want to become a victim, be on the lookout for the issues I have raised above. By simply exercising a little common sense, and knowing what to expect, you end up playing the game to win.